Some Tips For Building A Child’s Self Esteem
 
Parents are very powerful figures in the life of any child. First of all, they are responsible for
conceiving the child and for bringing that child into this world so everything that comes after
there will still be held somewhat responsible. The mother best of all has a special emotional
connection with her children while fathers are mostly the ones who deal with practical things in
raising children.
A perfect relationship between parents and children will be when the parents are role models of
providing love and support within the family while the children are obedient but to a certain
degree also independent in living their lives. In this world however there is no such thing as
perfect but this should not stop us from trying to build an ideal relationship.
 
Child’s Self Esteem  

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How to Develop Self Esteem Through God

There is a form of self-esteem that comes from an understanding of who God is and one's relationship with God. Here is how to develop self-esteem through God. This approach is centred on Jesus Christ the Messiah; others may promote other paths, but this path has proven to be very effective; so effective that you or your friends can know how to prove God is real and find yourself in Him and bless the whole world in God's Love....Read more
There is a form of self-esteem that comes from an understanding of who God is and one's relationship with God. Here is how to develop self-esteem through God. This approach is centred on Jesus Christ the Messiah; others may promote other paths, but this path has proven to be very effective; so effective that you or your friends can know how to prove God is real and find yourself in Him and bless the whole world in God's Love.

Steps

  1. Begin a study of the scriptures. Start with the New Testament - the book of John. Also study the Old Testament. These are records of God's dealings with the men and women on earth and the prophecies he sent through prophets- every one of which has come true so far.
  2. Look for evidences, as you study, that you are a child of God, a son or daughter of God. Look also for evidence that God is the only creator, righteous, holy, loving, good, and not capable of any evil. Look for writings that show God's love for his children, a love that mirrors and transcends the love a parent has for a child. This will provide you with the theoretical knowledge to support your self-esteem. Knowing that your true self is connected to the fact that God created you and loves you even though you are a sinner provides true confidence. You can know that you are truly loved unconditionally, which is a good way to gain esteem and confidence.
  3. Begin turning your mind, actions and thoughts to reflect the things you've studied (put on the new man, and all of the armor of God) as you are converted by God Receive the Holy Spirit as per the Bible and are born again. These are the things that God has asked his children to do in order to serve him. God also knows that when one lives life the way He's prescribed for us, by obeying his commands, that person will be living life in the fullest most abundant way possible. In his love, he has given you guidance to achieve this.
  4. Call upon God in prayer, in the name of Jesus Christ. You can even use those words: "...in the name of Jesus Christ". As you seek to follow Christ, he will change you Be Born Again. If you turn away from sin and accept that Christ died on the cross and rose again to save you from eternal separation from God, then the holy spirit will regenerate you and make you into a new person. Both the prayer and the life-changes will give you the practical experience to support your self-esteem.
  5. Notice that God will be with you: as you come across obstacles in your life that will be impossible to overcome, "all by yourself".
  6. Cherish the moment: It won't matter what others think about you, what they say, or what you can and can't do. You will feel good about yourself because you will know how much Jesus Christ loves you. It is a feeling you won't get anywhere else.
  7. Live for God, when it's all done: Remember, if you are a Christian, you are living in the world, but you are not "of" the world. The rules of world's peoples, their esteem, their clothing, everything of theirs is just that, theirs; not given over to God's will. You are God's loved child, and as his child, you must rely fully on him for everything, including self-esteem.
    • Self-esteem is HIGHLY overrated. If you need more self-esteem, you need more God. It is not our self-esteem that matters, but our GOD-esteem. Remember that through your day. Who cares if kids at school or co-workers tease or ridicule you for your faith? In the end, its not your social standing that matters, its your faith.

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Tips

  • Reading the Holy Bible and actually understanding it can give you real self esteem. Take some time to read and reflect on it.
  • Remember that you may not see Godly things as the answer to your problems even though they might be better for you than you can ever believe, think or imagine.
  • Understand that God made you for a reason, as in the Bible many have done what God wanted them to do, and look how they affected history.
    • 26 Watch the path of your feet and all your ways will be established.27 Do not turn to the right nor to the left: turn your foot from evil.(Proverbs 4:26-27)[1]

Warnings

  • There are mystical courses that claim to have all of life's answers. It seems to have the "spiritually correct" solution to bring about peace and unity. However, in the end, this transformation brings spiritual death if it is just miracles and angels without Christ.
  • Be clear that a message about miracles and angelic beings is not necessarily the message of Jesus Christ. It may be an eastern/or a new age religion wrapped in Christian terminology. That is deceptive because it sounds like Christianity but it is very very different unless it is lifting up Jesus Christ as savior.
  • The Bible is fully inspired by God's Holy Spirit so know that He does not merely want you to be confident in yourself. He actually wants you to give him your entire life -- that's why Jesus dying on the Cross was so significant.
  • If you are to the point where you have no self esteem and see no worth in your life talk to someone as soon as possible. These feelings are dangerous.

Things You'll Need

  • Scriptures
  • Bible

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Sources and Citations

  1. ↑ http://bible.cc/proverbs/4.htm Proverbs 4:26-27

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